The Language of Lust
Week #2 of our latest series PureSex and the introduction of "holistic" relationships verse "one-dimensional" relationships. Man... for so many years I had lived trying to figure out how to lessen my desires not realizing that it's impossible to do that. What God is looking for is "rightly ordered" sex lives and desires.
Got an email for one of our regular attenders today who wrote this:
"As I listened about seeing the whole person and not just body parts, I thought "What if I had learned it at 12 or 16 or at least before I was married (22)?." Would it have helped in my battle with lust and porn that nearly destroyed me and my marriage? I remember being taught "Don't Lust", but never the subsitute."
The truth about lust. When I give in to lust it handicaps my ability to have truely loving relationships. my desire is to really love my wife, all of her. I want to discover what's deep inside of her. Take some time to see the beauty of her intelect, to share her feelings, her hopes and dreams for the future, our future together.
Yeah I know... I'm a hopeless romantic... I can't help it. The truth is that there are a lot of guys like me they're just not sure if it's safe to express it or they're not really sure how. Some men just don't feel like they can take a risk and be vulnerable. ...Sorry, preaching next week's message already.
Need some help getting to a place of freedom in your sex life? You need to check out the Saturday mens Turning Point group. They meet at 8:00am at the church.
Until the next post,
See ya
Pastor Bill
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